Someome has to make the calls. A good leader has to make tough, informed decisions. Recognize his soldiers' speacle strengths and use them accordingly. Fight to win, with the knowledge than he may die trying. But most important, a leader won't ask anyone to do anything he wouldn't do himself.
When you open your heart sometimes you find a friend where you at least expected. Than you don't feel so alone. And things that seems to be important become easy if you face. Because your friends are beside you. And that means everything.