There are three entities in your relationship: There is you, the other person and the relationship. Each of the entities need different care and support at different times.
Nimm dich in acht vor den alten Männern - sie haben die kürzeste Zukunft
George Bernard ShawDer Spruch darf mit Autorenangabe frei verwendet werden, da die urheberrechtliche Schutzfrist abgelaufen ist († 2. November 1950) Zur Autorenbiographie
Never forget that you are the protagonist of your own story. And the antagonist of someone else's. And possible love interest in some other peoples. You are also a supporting charakter to a lots of peoples storys. You might even be the kind of stranger who unitentionally turns someones life around for the better.
Fissures happen. The're painful. And sometimes they seem like canyons rather tan cracks. Sometimes you can't fix them. But sometimes you can. And sometimes they'll fix themselves, and you aren't always meant to be the only bit of glue holdig everyting.
Es gibt zwei Fragen im Leben: Die erste heißt "Was will ich?" Die zweite heißt "Wie geht es mir?" Bringst du diese Reihenfolge durcheinander, kommst du in Teufels Küche.